What to say in a online dating profile
They’ve often worried over each word, trying to craft a profile that perfectly reflects their personalities.
So I’ll tell you what I tell them: a truly standout profile isn’t very long; it’s usually a few short paragraphs.
Short paragraphs provide much-needed white space and help break up your profile so that readers can stop and take a breath between ideas. And those include you with your arm around a woman who is quite possibly your ex, but probably your sister.
It can still tell you just as much about a person as a longer one will, but you’ll keep reading a shorter profile until the end without needing a nap when you’re done.
Solution: Edit, edit, edit Here’s where a trusted friend — and, dare I say, a professional profile writer! Think about how you can say the same thing using fewer words.
Twelve years ago, I took a chance and wrote a personal ad.
My finished product reflected my attitude at the time—a combination of "you have to play to win" and "hey, why not?
A quick-and-dirty guideline is to have two paragraphs about yourself, then two about who you’re looking for and perhaps one or two sentences at the end to wrap it up. Or six photos of your dogs in various positions on the couch.